Queer & trans actor, writer, recovering internet opinion-haver. I’m drawn to art that shouldn’t work but does, systems that should care but don’t, and the curious ways we make meaning anyway.

I mostly post followers-only.

ambivert, explainer, lover of words and well-told stories, aspiring space traveler

cis-het-white-father in a queer marriage

co-facilitator of Wholehearted Masculine Men's Groups: https://wholeheartedmasculine.com

I accept most follow requests, but it helps if you have:
- filled out your bio, incl. pronouns
- posted at least once
- revealed something about your relationship to marginalized communities
- interacted with me at all (a single fave tells me something about you)
- 🤖🚫

-Just a normal online person.
-Blogging since 1998 aka the First Online Dad.
-he/him
-Writing from Massachuset land (Cambridge, MA)